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I
began writing this article with a clear conscious that every
man must one day
set
realistic goals in his life and seek to accomplish these
goals through hard work, faith, and perseverance. Truth
is, there has been an ongoing war against black boys in
the American media and in America’s inner city neighborhoods.
Black boys that grow up in big cities where a skyrocketing
crime rate and police harassment are everyday commonalties-it
is a painful reality that many of these children will not
survive the journey from the streets into the classroom.
Our
education system has already proven itself an ineffective
tool with respect to teaching young black boys the self
-development skills necessary to cope with the confrontations
that they must face day in and day out on their road from
the "hood" to the classroom. Neighborhood streets infested
with dope pushers, prostitutes, and drug addicts claim the
attention of these inner city children before they can even
conceive of living in a world free of such activity.
Equally
responsible for creating a negative stigma against black
boys in the minds of society as a whole, would be the media
portrayal of black men on television. This reckless vehicle
uses every means and opportunity to cast a shadow over young
black men in a negative light geared toward creating an
environment of fear within a community, and more importantly,
of black boys. When black men wallpaper the local news headline
it is usually for committing an illegal act of some kind.
This negative portrayal of black men is again plastered
over local and cable television networks more often than
white men who commit identical acts on a local scale. This
in itself suggests a trend aimed at keeping black boys from
looking past the ghetto streets to find life flourishing
without violence and poverty.
Aside from the mainstream media, is rap music suggesting
that violent acts are cool or hip? Strategic marketing approaches
specifically target young black boys to promote music with
violent lyrics to boost music sales and create a hostile
environment excited about violence. We must take the responsibility
to identify these everyday tactics that confuse young black
boys into believing that riding around with a gun and a
40-ounce bottle of beer through the neighborhood is acceptable
behavior. As a black man, I want the next generation of
black men to have a better chance of accomplishing the dreams
and aspirations that I may have fallen short of realizing
in my lifetime. Educate your children on the misrepresentations
within the media that are attacking their minds. Teach your
children that not everything that they hear on the news
or read in the newspapers is true. Teach them to challenge
any pictures that paint black men in a negative fashion
without the benefit of an explanation-that there are two
sides to every story. Many young black boys fall victim
to this early on and wind up second-generation victims exhibiting
fallout effects of a society engineered and perfected with
the destruction of black boys at the forefront of its agenda.
The
question is, Why don't American black men (the very ones
that are falling victim everyday to a system, which brutalizes
them physically and destroys their self-esteem through harassment)
stand up and take back the minds and hearts of their baby
brothers and sisters? There is an old saying that "A boy
loves and respects his bigger brother more so than his mother,
and would follow him off of a cliff into a lake of fire."
Is it because our black men are unaware of the war in which
they fight? No. This is because they see no real hope for
the future. The metric system that every man and women is
supposed to believe in to carry them to the Promised Land
of equality has failed to measure up! Stand up in the same
tradition as black men and women of our past and take back
the dignity and respect that is due to every person regardless
of the color of their skin.
Copyright © 1999 Brett T. Bonner
Brett Tyler Bonner is a 28-year-old administrative assistant
and freelance writer. He has been writing on and off for
about 6 years, but has recently renewed his vigor to write
after serving a tour in the United States Army. He enjoys
writing bar review articles for the Barfly Newspaper
as well as poetry on the website, www.timbooktu.com.
Poetry helps him to understand his life as well as the lives
of those around me. This very necessary form of expression
allows his soul to be heard through his words. According
to Brett, “Poetry can ease burdens, mend broken hearts or
slap you in the face with the truth. It can be playful or
represent torment within ones soul. It can make you laugh
or cry. It can mean everything to someone and nothing at
all to someone else, all at the same time. The true "Power
of Poetry" does not lie in the pen, it lives in the heart.”
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